* fix: bump xtools to 0.1.9 to support go 1.18
* bump x/tools version to 0.1.10
* add go version 1.17 and 1.18 to the CI build matrix
* exclude 1.14 from macos and windows builds.
This change adds windows and macos to the matrix and excludes 1.14 from running on windows or macos. This matches the original behaviour of the CI build inverting the includes/excludes options